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Sooooooo super awkward questions warming

I just started using a feminine chastity cage to keep the "Lady bits" out from between my legs and to diminish the bulge. I got it on comfortably last night for the first time, I was struggling to not be erect the first couple of times, and then again this morning. So the curiosity kink is gone which is great. So I love the look and feel and the not having stuff getting in the way down there, but I've run into two issues that I was wondering if anyone else has had

First off, I'm precumming constantly. Like i was already wearing a low flow pad in my panties for that reason, but that was getting better. So I assume with time I'll get used to it and it will stop?

B: my skin is like eating the cage. I have one of the really small ones that just smashes the head of my penis as far back as it will go. It's more comfortable than it sounds. But the extra skin that leaves behind slowly creeps over the front of my cage. Like I went to put my pad in and I could barely see the pink and there was just a pool of precum in there. Obvi cleaned it up and pulled the skin back but is this a bad thing? Am I going to hurt myself? It's not uncomfortable, outside of the getting used to it part.

Sorry, didn't know who to ask since the feminine chastity group appears dead, and honestly they're just thirsty for pics and I'm not down for that.

Thanks for the continued love and support.

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

Edit: Spelling (I suck at spelling, and my secretary/wife is not currently reading over my shoulder)

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[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

I will definitely look into it. It's always better to have options. Thanks for the advice!