Sooooooo super awkward questions warming
I just started using a feminine chastity cage to keep the "Lady bits" out from between my legs and to diminish the bulge. I got it on comfortably last night for the first time, I was struggling to not be erect the first couple of times, and then again this morning. So the curiosity kink is gone which is great. So I love the look and feel and the not having stuff getting in the way down there, but I've run into two issues that I was wondering if anyone else has had
First off, I'm precumming constantly. Like i was already wearing a low flow pad in my panties for that reason, but that was getting better. So I assume with time I'll get used to it and it will stop?
B: my skin is like eating the cage. I have one of the really small ones that just smashes the head of my penis as far back as it will go. It's more comfortable than it sounds. But the extra skin that leaves behind slowly creeps over the front of my cage. Like I went to put my pad in and I could barely see the pink and there was just a pool of precum in there. Obvi cleaned it up and pulled the skin back but is this a bad thing? Am I going to hurt myself? It's not uncomfortable, outside of the getting used to it part.
Sorry, didn't know who to ask since the feminine chastity group appears dead, and honestly they're just thirsty for pics and I'm not down for that.
Thanks for the continued love and support.
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Edit: Spelling (I suck at spelling, and my secretary/wife is not currently reading over my shoulder)
we do not use any chastity devices, but in the past when wearing clothing that has been tighter around the crotch—and especially nylon or spandex clothing!—we have experienced something similar with pre-ejaculate fluid, especially since starting HRT. for us, the compression on the glans penis, peritoneal area, etc. makes it so that when the penis shifts around (or the clothing does), even though it's only a very small movement it is perceived with much greater intensity.
the way we dealt with this was to either wear stuff made of cotton underneath, or to tuck in a way where not much pressure is being put on the glans itself. the type of chastity cage you have does, well, exactly what that second point mentions, but perhaps you could sew a layer of softer fabric over the device, perhaps with something like loose cotton to cushion it underneath. the caveat is that this can soak up fluids far more readily. but it may help!
bit of a tangent about some stuff that is semi-related, but not exactly pertinent
as unusual as it may sound, the feminine penis is very much a real thing. this is especially pertinent with those undergoing hormone therapy, but the physiological behavior of the genitalia is still absolutely linked to state of mind. you're likely aware, but some studies look to have demonstrated that the brain behavior of a transgender subject does differ from that of a cis subject of the same assigned sexual characteristics at birth, to a notable extent. so you'll likely do some experimenting!
while primarily intended as a way for trans women to evade dysphoria when partaking in sexual pleasure, the zine Fucking Trans Women has some explanations and advice that has helped us accept our own body so much more. it is certainly not for all of course, however!
remember, having a penis doesn't define you as male forthright, not even physiologically.
you'll figure out your own ways, so hang in there. here are our best wishes for the future!! xox
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Thanks this is really helpful! It's alot of information to take in but I feel like I have a better understanding of my body. I really appreciate it!