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Aye chiming in here to offer an alternative to those expensive tuck kits, all they are made of is a certain kind of tape, called kinesiology tape. Its like athletic tape, and its about the ONLY tape that should be used for tucking. Theres a couple others, but i really recommend trying kinesiology.
The thing is, once you know the name of the tape, you can get 3 big ass wiiiide rolls of the stuff online for lile 15 bucks. And if you use gaffs as well, thats like a year or mores supply there.
Also accckkk duct tape you poor thing 😭
In my defence I was still new to everything and it was waaaaaaay before I learned to accept myself so I just went with what I had on hand instead of buying something.
I'm glad you mentioned the kt tape, it totally slipped my mind!
I actually bought some, but didn't think things through with the width. Since I don't exactly like poking around down there, I may have underestimated how wide it needed to be even as a gr*wer, and am just using strips overlapped for now.
I've been looking around the interwebs for cheap wide rolls (but recognized brands, I don't trust cheap unknown adhesives for skin contact, ecpeically on sensitive skin) but they still seem a little expensive. I just haven't found the right place!
Also I've not tucked with the kt tape for extended periods, although it is a much smoother profile that I adore, I have yet to find a way to tuck that I can sit stand and walk around comfortably all day. It would be really nice today since I am wearing leggings and we are going to a karaoke place tonight. I don't plan on getting up in front of people, but I guess the best way to say it is I have more confidence in myself if I feel like nobody would notice.
Dont defend yourself girl! No need, its tough out here. Its a lot for anybody, and i dont fault anyone for anything they try to do to feel like themselves.
So ive been tucking basically daily for months now 8-12 hrs, and while im not you so i cant speak to whats going to def work for you, i can offer lots of advice. Info about it is scattered everywhere unfortunately.
So if your comfortable with it, shoot me a DM! I can try to quickly type out some big things that helped the most.
I just dont wanna post it all here its somewhat graphic and deals with the thing alot of peeps here probly would prefer not think about. Up to you!
Edit: this offer is not exclusive to Courtney. If anyone needs help, with this or something else, feel free to HMU. Id rather you gorgeous girls be informed and not hurting yourselves! This offer is valid anytime anywhere, indefinitely ❤️
I'll shoot you a DM but right now we are out at a karaoke bar so it might be some between responses!
As much as it sucks to talk about, more open discussions about such thingd would be great, but that feels like something for a separate community. It's definitely something many would rather not discuss.
Hmmm can posts be pinned on lemmy? Cause that would be great, i could host a google doc or two, and the links can be in the pinned post. Idk if we can even do that tho
That would be great!
Hmm maybe ill hit up the mods about it at some point. Hell ive already had to bug Ada once why not again?
Edit: oops seems Ada isnt a mod here, will be a fresh interaction!
Edit edit: god i cant get my thoughts together, but now that im thinking about it; if a help thread were to be a thing it would probly be better over in MtF. Since its alot of MtF specific advice, its totally different for FtM