Off My Chest
RULES:
I am looking for mods!
1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
2. Bigotry is not allowed. That includes racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and religiophobia. (If you want to vent about religion, that's fine; but religion is not inherently evil.)
3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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Gender and sexuality are separate things. Just because you have a feminine side doesn't mean you have to be attracted to men. I'm trans, and when I was 16 I would also dress femme alone in my room sometimes, so I get what it's like. (Not saying you're trans, it's perfectly okay to be a guy who likes to dress femme.) Figuring out why and what it means for you takes a lot of introspection and is only something you can answer.