Off My Chest
RULES:
I am looking for mods!
1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
2. Bigotry is not allowed. That includes racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and religiophobia. (If you want to vent about religion, that's fine; but religion is not inherently evil.)
3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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Why do you do it? Probably because femininity turns you on. It's nothing to do with being gay. Maybe you have more of a fem side you're discovering? Idk I'm not an expert, but there's a bunch of the queer/etc community here (crossdressers probably too) that could give better answers than me.
My advice would be, don't be self critical on yourself, or feeling bad because of what society says men should or shouldn't do. You're allowed to be a complex person.
It could also be identity and not necessarily sexual gratification. Not everything revolves around sex, methinks.