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Why?
toxicity is inevitable in real life such as much. toxic people are everywhere, and they drag people down with them.
i've had toxic family, friends, and co-workers. sometimes you have no choice but to live with it, sometimes you can ignore it, sometimes you can boot the person from your life if they cross certain boundaries. and sometimes the toxic person tries to get you removed.
the false tech bro assumption I've seen since forever, is the idea you can engineer out people's negative behaviors and impulses... you can't. they will find a way to exploit whatever system you set up. that's what they do... that's what makes them toxic. you cannot create a social media network that is free from toxic people, unless you make one with no people involved.
I'm not talking about engineering a problem away. I'm saying it can't be engineered away and requires human adults in the room (moderators in this case) to handle bad behavior.
Accepting the presence of toxicity as a fact of life does nothing more than attract more toxicity.