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is possible to get full erectile dysfunction? (quokk.au)
submitted 6 hours ago by erin@quokk.au to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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i have no random erections

BUT I HATE THIS AT ALL

i hate the pp which didnt athropy at all for a year on hrt

i hate "sexual function"

i hate the fucking penis and balls (which also doesnt athropy much)

i hate m@sturbation i hate i hate i hate

why sometimes i dont want m@sturbate but body wants (this happens even at zero T and high E maybe high E?)

i feeel supper dysphoric by next day after that

and prolactin spikes after this for a DAY(up to 600 mMe, 300 at normal days)

also is possible to get some penile athropy somehow but would be better if 70-80% athropy

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[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Have you considered a chastity cage? It would would keep you from having an erection and diminish the overall size of the bulge. I'm getting one to look/feel more feminine in my panties and skirts. This is what I'm getting:

https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1

I don't like that it says sissy on it so I plan on filing that off. Don't know how normal this is but it sounds like it might be a good option for you.

The feminine chastity lemmy group is like 90% porn but there are some post about chastity progress and advice. It's pretty inactive but you might get lucky:

https://lemmynsfw.com/c/sissychastity

I generally only masturbate as a form of bodily maintenance, it's a good stress reliever and helps boost your immune system. It might help you to think of it this way, disconnect the sexual nature of the act.

I hope any of this helps. I don't like to hear you are in so much pain, and want nothing more than for you to feel good about you no matter what. Deep breaths and remember, it's a beautiful day as long as you want it to be!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

[–] erin@quokk.au 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

idk for me it only for a moment then one day my state maybe okay by next day my head is trash

i suspect is prolactin flustrating(confirmed by three labs when a day before was horny)

i understand that is natural process that should be exist and IT MUCH MUCH better than on T and low libido but heh dysphoria

my castrated cat also still maintaing him sexual function......., so it more about psychology not hormones, funny that him pp also didnt athropy for a years without testosterone

i want compression underwear to tuck better

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Well at least you have an idea of what the problem is and hopefully it gets better. I should have my cage in the next week or so and if you are curious feel free to reach out. I'd be more than willing to share my experience. Not matter what you be you girly!