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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
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- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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I have heard that it's essentially a dice roll whether you loose erections or not. But there are drugs that will help just don't go taking the addictive ones.
Personally I enjoy giving my partner pleasure and she specifically likes my penis. So I'm trying to avoid ed. One of the main reasons I opted for monotherapy.
i take sertraline but it useless should i ask my psych to change to that definitly get ER?
I mean if that's your goal. But if you're planning on getting a penile inversion vaginoplasty at some point, you should be aware that it's dependent on having that tissue to work with. But if it's giving you significant dysphoria, you could for example take a blocker and then a small quantity of sildenafil before bed so you dont witness the erections. That's just if you wanted piv. I'm not sure of the requirements for other operations.
don't planning
if not it i definitly would get zero depth vulvoplasty (im ace) or nullification(better)
realistic is get orchie and less is penectomy
hmmmm how costs nullo? if its cheap it possible to make it ..... especially in thailand like in russian propagandist TV(its easiter much to get in thai and costs also than somewhere in EU) or turkey, serbia is also VERY easy to travel here