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i have no random erections

BUT I HATE THIS AT ALL

i hate the pp which didnt athropy at all for a year on hrt

i hate "sexual function"

i hate the fucking penis and balls (which also doesnt athropy much)

i hate m@sturbation i hate i hate i hate

why sometimes i dont want m@sturbate but body wants (this happens even at zero T and high E maybe high E?)

i feeel supper dysphoric by next day after that

and prolactin spikes after this for a DAY(up to 600 mMe, 300 at normal days)

also is possible to get some penile athropy somehow but would be better if 70-80% athropy

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I have heard that it's essentially a dice roll whether you loose erections or not. But there are drugs that will help just don't go taking the addictive ones.

Personally I enjoy giving my partner pleasure and she specifically likes my penis. So I'm trying to avoid ed. One of the main reasons I opted for monotherapy.

[–] erin@quokk.au 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

i take sertraline but it useless should i ask my psych to change to that definitly get ER?

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I mean if that's your goal. But if you're planning on getting a penile inversion vaginoplasty at some point, you should be aware that it's dependent on having that tissue to work with. But if it's giving you significant dysphoria, you could for example take a blocker and then a small quantity of sildenafil before bed so you dont witness the erections. That's just if you wanted piv. I'm not sure of the requirements for other operations.

[–] erin@quokk.au 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

don't planning

  1. scary
  2. scary
  3. pain
  4. where get good surgeron
  5. where get momey
  6. not that much dysphoria more about function and size

if not it i definitly would get zero depth vulvoplasty (im ace) or nullification(better)

realistic is get orchie and less is penectomy

hmmmm how costs nullo? if its cheap it possible to make it ..... especially in thailand like in russian propagandist TV(its easiter much to get in thai and costs also than somewhere in EU) or turkey, serbia is also VERY easy to travel here