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Depends if they have a pussy. In general most non-binary people I've met haven't been particularly androgynous. Which is one of the reasons they confuse me.
But yeah if they've got the body type I enjoy and a good personality then sure. No way I could make a universal statement though.
Yep. There's a general confusion between gender identity and gender expression, that's why you "expect" non-binary to look androgynous. But indeed, a nonbinary can have a cisman-passing or a ciswoman-passing. I am non-binary and I "look like a man" and it causes me to be insulted or mocked when I go out with makeup or wearing a skirt.
But yeah basically all you need to understand is that gender identity does not have to match a gender expression.
Ok apparently I'm more ignorant than I thought lol thanks for explaining.