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Why or why not?

If so, would it depend on how they present or their assigned gender at birtb or something else?

(Edit: fixed AGAB to confuse less people. Sorry people.)

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[–] TaterTot@piefed.social 87 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yeah, if we were into each other. How they present and their AGAB matching my own preferences would be a factor.

But at the end of the day, my "straightness" is just a convenient label. If someone gets voted in by the Tribunal (Heart, Mind, and Cock), all labels are ultimately superfluous.

[–] cybervseas@lemmy.world 35 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Blessed are we who serve Hemico.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 18 hours ago

HeMiCo, in all things. This is the way.

[–] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well, that shorthand just made it into the lexicon

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 18 hours ago

Can we make it a sect of Pastafarianism, or would that get too weird too fast, with the appendages and all? 🤷🏽‍♂️ Regardless, this notion's got rhythm and it yearns to be shared with the world. 🤘🏼

[–] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 day ago

Heart, mind and cock. Beautiful.