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That sounds like it would only work if the straight person can easily interpret the non-binary person as "basically like a cis man/woman just with different pronouns", and the non-binary person either has the same set of genitals that you'd expect based on their appearance, or the straight person just doesn't care about unexpected genitals, which seems rare.
But I'm bi, so I wouldn't know.
“Unexpected genitals” sounds like you find them between their shoulder blades
I know plenty of gay women who are into gock, so why don't straight men like gock?
Toxic masculinity, heteronormativity etc.
That makes sense, masculinity is the main thing straight men have that gay women don't. And if it's stopping them from enjoying themselves, it sounds toxic.
Some straight men do like gock.
My husband is one of them.
I hope you both have fun pegging him organic style
For better or worse, I’m a cis bisexual woman so the usual pegging is what we’ve got. I love the term “organic style pegging” though hahah
But he really does enjoy gock and he really is straight.
Lol, the whole 'non-binary' thing is so weird to me, since I like the lads and the lassies. As long as they tick the attractive boxes, like confident, smart, and being into me, it's like getting a christmas morning present every time I wake up next to them.
It's not well-defined or anything. It's basically a wastebin kind of classification, as in 'oh I'm not this or that, so i guess I'm non-binary'.
It also acts as a holding space for people who haven't figured our who they want to be.
in my interactions iwth non-binary people, there are a lot of them who seem to be into that classification of themselves as some sort of 'fighting the patriarchy' or 'refusing to be labeled' type of teenage rebellion attitude stuff. also a lot of poly, alt, kink, etc lifestyle folks, at least on my dating apps.