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[–] Jyek@sh.itjust.works 21 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Damsel in distress is where the woman needs saving.

Fridging is where the woman has faced near or fully irreparable harm or death and the hero feels a need to avenge her as a result.

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 13 points 15 hours ago

That's only half of it. The point is that a woman is killed/harmed and her story cut short, simply to start the male hero's story.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't disagree, I included bodily harm in damsel in distress. Just that it's not the entire focus unlike fridging.

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

It's a bit of a square/rectangle thing. All of the women who get fridged are/were damsels, but not all damsels get fridged.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 12 hours ago

Oh, I think it works as a subtrope really well that way