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[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I think "fridging" implies more bodily harm (or threat thereof) than the traditional "damsel in distress" which is often a kidnapping or often a form of arranged marriage, though bodily harm is part of both. Either way, tropes change and can get new names over time, so I guess this might be a more modern term for an old trope with some new stuff added?

[–] hesh@quokk.au 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

It reminds me of Mr Freeze from Batman, who is motivated to save his literally fridged wife

[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Years of media have taught me that damsel-in-distress could easily be a woman tied to train tracks with an oncoming train or about to plunge off a cliff in a run away stagecoach. I disagree that damsel-in-distress is exclusive to non-bodily harm.

[–] domdanial@reddthat.com 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Both of these examples are "imminent danger" where she hasn't been harmed yet, and can still be saved. Fridging would be if the hero discovers her already run over or walks in right as she's shot or whatever.

[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I could see that. But that’s not what the meme says.

[–] domdanial@reddthat.com 1 points 11 hours ago

True it says facing