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A little maybe, but not much.

I've seen people say they left reddit to join Lemmy because of the toxic users. To each their own, but I personally think Lemmings aren't much better. Some people over here can't understand that sensitive questions can be asked without bad intent. People are way too defensive about their opinions.

It is disappointing, but it's the better option.

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[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 32 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I think you're missing the point.

People are people everywhere you go. Nowhere is free of people unless you want to be by yourself.

Lemmy and the Fediverse is not about only being around people that are exactly perfect for you to associate with.

It's about not giving your thoughts, your mental energy, and your time to build an empire for someone else to profit off of.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 5 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

I have often wondered about it. I mean people are people. So why should it be? That you and I should get along so awfully?

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Okay, so we're different colors and we're different creeds and different people have different needs.

It's obvious you hate me though I've done nothing wrong. I've never even met you, so what could I have done?

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 hour ago

I can't understand. What makes a man.

[–] leagman1@feddit.org 2 points 5 hours ago

Speak for yourself, you paragraph-writing Dingo! /jk