Unpopular Opinion
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Vote the opposite of the norm.
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Guidelines:
Tag your post, if possible (not required)
- If your post is a "General" unpopular opinion, start the subject with [GENERAL].
- If it is a Lemmy-specific unpopular opinion, start it with [LEMMY].
Rules:
1. NO POLITICS
Politics is everywhere. Let's make this about [general] and [lemmy] - specific topics, and keep politics out of it.
2. Be civil.
Disagreements happen, but that doesn’t provide the right to personally attack others. No racism/sexism/bigotry. Please also refrain from gatekeeping others' opinions.
3. No bots, spam or self-promotion.
Only approved bots, which follow the guidelines for bots set by the instance, are allowed.
4. Shitposts and memes are allowed but...
Only until they prove to be a problem. They can and will be removed at moderator discretion.
5. No trolling.
This shouldn't need an explanation. If your post or comment is made just to get a rise with no real value, it will be removed. You do this too often, you will get a vacation to touch grass, away from this community for 1 or more days. Repeat offenses will result in a perma-ban.
6. Defend your opinion
This is a bit of a mix of rules 4 and 5 to help foster higher quality posts. You are expected to defend your unpopular opinion in the post body. We don't expect a whole manifesto (please, no manifestos), but you should at least provide some details as to why you hold the position you do.
Instance-wide rules always apply. https://legal.lemmy.world/tos/
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I'm agreeing more with this every day. Just yesterday some guy made fun of a genuine and reasonable concern I had then made of me again sandwiching in an "apology", and when I told them it still seemed they were making light of it, they flipped the fuck out and told me I would die alone among other completely unnecessary and inappropriate insults.
I mean, I get overreacting sometimes, but it kinda feels like some days half the people you interact with are either actively shit humans or are having the worst day of their lives. I wish you could feel at least safe enough to challenge a viewpoint without some dickhead coming for your jugular. It's pretty pathetic and I've gone through several rounds of wondering if I want to be here or not. I've definitely had to block a lot of people in order to stay.
I have been called a Nazi and zionist for literally no reason. Once I responded to a comment from someone saying Nazis aren't human to say "I hate the things they believe and do, and I think they should be punished harshly for their crimes, but they are still indeed human". You would've thought I said "Nazis just have an opinion and do nothing wrong," which of course I was not even slightly hinting at or thinking. I was told I was a Nazi sympathizer who should kill himself. Then the zionist accusations will come at the drop of a hat. I literally think Israel is evil yet if I say something as innocuous as "trump is hurting Gaza even more than any Democrat" that makes me a "sHiTlIb zIoNiSt". I'm probably in the left-most 15% in the US. And yeah I know that's not saying much globally but how about we understand that people live in a context and you cannot scream them into being on the exact same page as your own personal politics? People can be so self righteous it's painful to think about. It's really taxing to my mental health when I think "this space where I relate to people more than anywhere else on the Internet is also full of people who will wish death or suffering on me if I mention one thing they don't like."
I’m beginning to think half of these people are foreign bad actors, come across from Reddit et al ironically enough.
They’re my only complaint with this place. They’re so irrational you have to wonder how they get by daily and the conversations are always pushed the same way; once the accusations of Zionism and genocide supporter run out of steam, they move to attempting quotes you never made or deliberate attempts to confuse the conversation.
For the genuine ones among them, I think there’s a bit of cope because they’ve realised they’ve been played at the top political level and used, now their ego won’t let them admit that.
They’re not worth engaging with. These are at an honest level, pedophile and genocide enablers and at the dishonest one, bad actors working for the interests they project. I think that’s a lesson a few of us need to learn here.
Yeah just block em dude. I enjoy your comments. Including this one.
There's a fair percentage of people I'd say are mentally ill or at least like you say.. Seem to be constantly experiencing the worst day of their lives here. I just block them and move on with life - I'm not their therapist.
My experience of Lemmy after blocking just 40 or so users, (and shit communities that I don't want to see posts from) has changed greatly for the positive. Don't let them drag you down, there's plenty of room here for reasonable opinions.
Thank you for this, good to know people enjoy my input on occasion! I have increased my quickness to block. Which sucks in a way because I do want to see even bad opinions (as long as they aren't heinous), but I cannot be raged at by these kinds of users so often.
You're a decent reasonable person.
A lot of lemmy users, especially the .ml nutjobs, think that makes you a horrible person. They are extremists and only support other people who support their extremist views, including the use of violence towards those who don't agree with their political opinions.
Thanks. Yeah, that's what I gather too.
Is there a reason why an instance with so many people has the most dikheads?
Yes, because the instance(s) themselves are there to promote their beliefs and serve as safe havens for them. Just like the one you are on is about promoting books and writers. But they come into generalist instances and act like dickheads because they can't help themselves, and/or unsuspecting folks post in their instances and they lose their minds.
Some people just need the first stupid loser saying stupid shit to be verbose and pompous. They wouldn't mind if he was wrong, they'd join in to attack you
Yeah, I have thought that too. Often I will get several downvotes on something I think is pretty benign, and many of them tend to show up after some asshole is rude/insulting about that benign viewpoint.