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I'm conflicted to call this the most terrifying thing I've experienced, just the first thing that comes to mind. And spooky just tends to be lame-ass fake ghost stories, but ...
During a holiday break when I was in college, I was stalked by a bunch of guys who I'm pretty convinced were planning to harm me.
Campus was closed down for the holidays. I was stuck on campus. Aside from international students, almost nobody else was in the dorms. I decided to go for a walk and it turns out, so did one of my friends' exes and some buddies of his who also stayed behind for the break.
As I was out walking, that dude and several other guys crested a hill ahead of me and started demanding I come talk to them. No polite language, just threats, slurs, and foul language. He'd dated my friend briefly, but during that time, found out I am gay. This was in the before times when LGBT+ folks were not widely accepted and this was considered to be acceptable behavior by large numbers of people.
I turned around and split off heading towards the campus cafeteria. Figured they wouldn't follow me, but even if they did, I'd be heading towards safety. Well, they gave chase. Unbeknownst to me, the cafeteria was closed for the holidays. I was on my own. Too far away from my dorm to get to safety, and all the other buildings were locked up.
I ducked into the campus gardens and hid behind a bush. Those guys wandered around looking for me for quite a while, and then I stayed put for what felt like hours until I felt confident that they weren't still lurking.
Learned my lesson, though, I guess. And at least I didn't become a victim of violence.
Glad you made it out alright