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[–] Lemmchen@feddit.org 5 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

The thing is, if you have non-technical users, you have to set up the VPN connection on the client site yourself, maybe on multiple machines and more than once, if they decide to upgrade or even just reset their devices.

[–] esc@piefed.social 15 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (2 children)

The problem here - it's not me who requires access to my library, if someone isn't willing or able to do it, I'm sorry but that's just how it is. People should stop infantilize non-technical people, absolute majority of them is capable of navigating our world without much problems and I'm willing to help them if help is asked.

If my 60 y.o. mother with close to zero technical skills can do it with limited help (due to distance and other constraints) I'm pretty sure that majority of people with sound mind can.

[–] Lemmchen@feddit.org 4 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Or you can not be arrogant towards your friends and family who have probably helped you on lots of occasions and will probably keep being there for you in the future.
Idk man, unconditional sharing feels pretty good, tbh. Making them jump through hoops isn't really my jam. To me this kinda all plays into making a stronger bond with people that are close to me, so maybe we have different reasons for why we are sharing our stuff.

Inb4 "we are not the same" meme

[–] esc@piefed.social 4 points 10 hours ago

I'm not arrogant, just don't assume that people are dumb and inept. If they can't or don't want to give a bit of time to setup it, well how can someone be forced to use free service that causes momentarily inconvenience once to use. 😔

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Idk man, unconditional sharing feels pretty good

Pass. Users cause complexities. Complexities cause issues.

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 3 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Users cause issues. Programs cause issues. Connecting it to the internet causes issues. Having a computer causes issues. Better turn your laptop off and throw it on the garbage.

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

The difference being, I can control computers, laptops, servers, etc. I cannot control users.

[–] IratePirate@feddit.org 5 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

This. And for everyone you just can't figure it out on their own, there's RustDesk for remote assistance. It, too, can be self-hosted.

[–] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 8 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (2 children)

So use a reverse proxy with authentiacation before access to Jellyfin is allowed. I use Caddy forward_auth with Authelia for this. Unless you also want to use the apps without VPN, this works great.

[–] Lemmchen@feddit.org 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Does that work for the Android and Android TV apps?

[–] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

No. As I said, apps don't work. I cobbled together an API key service that let's you have an API key (password) in the server URL in Rust for myself. This works with Apps, but it is a bit too messy and single purpose for me to open source it right now. Maybe one day.

[–] inclementimmigrant@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Got instructions or a site to point to on setting something like that up?

[–] DreamlandLividity@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Honestly, I may have to write one at some point. I just used the documentation of those two tools to set it up.