Yeah it's just stuff someone thinks about when they've refined their taste over "bass goes boom". It can still be annoying when they try to force their opinions down on you when you haven't even asked.

Yeah, that would be when they tell you that your speaker cables are not danceable.

Well, but it's not about the music itself (like what it means to you, how it makes you feel etc.) - it's like talking about a picture and focusing on what kind of brushes were used. Valid and interesting to a degree, but not what art is about. It's impossible without techne (practical stuff) but transcends it.

Or whatever.