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Yeah, I know that it is about to get even worse, but fml at 43 things are getting crazy. My hormones are so out of whack that I'll cry at a video of a puppy being cute.

I'm even getting emotional about writing this post. I guess I just need some kind of comfort and release because Things are crazy.

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[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Forgive me the question, but what's the difference between perimenopause and menopause?

[–] alternategait@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Menopause is defined as not having had a menstrual cycle for more than a year. Many women have a sort of stop start time where they may not have periods for a few months or where the periods are extremely irregular. This time can be a little fuzzy but is distinct enough from both reproductive years and menopause that it’s gotten the name of perimenopause.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ah TIL! That makes sense, I don't have that quite yet. Do get the cramps though, but a good water bottle and chocolate helps often (for me at least).

Are the periods then sometimes worse, or lighter?

[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago

Perimenopause can change the timing, amount, and severity of your menstrual cycle, often making them worse, but not always. You may also notice changes in PMS symptoms, they usually are worse as well, but not always.

[–] night_petal@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago

It's a phase before actual menopause. It's kind of your body transitioning into menopause.