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No disrespect but may I ask you some questions
What pisses me off about this is that if they believe that's rude, they're already being rude nt asking one. Like you literally just asked me a question. Just assssskkkkkkk ughhh. People can be exhausting.
"Do you have time to answer some questions?" is a very considerate thing to ask someone who may be busy. 🤨
If someone has a question, I can answer it immediately if they just ask me. If they say hi, ask me how I'm doing, or ask if they can ask me something, then it is going to take me longer to get them the information they need. Besides, there's never a setting where the answer to "can I ask you a question" is no, because they've given me no information about what type of question they want to ask. So to properly even answer that question I'd need to ask them more questions! So just ask the damn question. If I'm busy and can't answer I'll just say "I'm busy right now and will answer when I can" or direct them to someone else who I think can answer sooner.
Besides, I've never been asked "do you have time to be asked some questions" which is not what I said I have a problem with. It's specifically "can I ask you a question?"