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The doctors say I'm fine but I'm kinda chubby and I have big hips. Everyone says it makes me conventionally attractive and that men are gonna "go crazy" over me (I already have a bf and gf as I'm in an open relationship) but I hate it. They want me to be this long-haired, big-hipped beautiful woman but honestly, I kinda hate my big hips. Like, yeah, I look pretty but I can't fit into any of my pants after a while!!!

And I have been working out and stuff but I think the pills I take help make me fat so...

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[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I choose to instead hate clothing manufacturers and media that suggests realistic bodies are the problem