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If a person operates as if nothing is unconditional and they expect something in return or else you are deemed worthless, they're a fucking cunt.
If a person continually makes a situation about themselves even when it's 100% not, that's a red flag.
If they whine and complain to get what they want or have others do for them, they're a bad person.
Yelling at a newborn baby in a punishing manner as if they have any understanding of anything.
Sometimes they're just easily overwhelmed and can't think clearly. Not an excuse but at least it's the background of their actions, they're not doing this in complete awareness and out of malice. Nonetheless, we have the moral duty to know and correct ourselves to the best of our abilities.
Oh I totally get it. But when the pattern persists, it may take another's intervention to correct the behavior. That's opening up a whole new can of worms.