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If you don't agree with the concept of good or bad people, you dont have to answer just down vote. If you think a person is good or bad based on where they were born and live you don't have to answer just down vote.

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[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Good people:

  • Take time to listen to others even if it's something they don't agree with, they want to understand the other person before they want to performatively argue.

  • Treat others with kindness, and everyone equally, no matter their age, race or social standing.

  • Make sure people are treated fairly by others even if it's very small gestures like noticing if someone said something nobody heard, or if someone is being talked-over, and calling attention to it.

  • Care about how they make other people feel. I mean, it should be obvious but apparently a LOT of people took all the wrong lessons from their saturday morning cartoons and care more about being emotionally vindicated and somehow still think they're the good ones, a tendency that covers every side of every population or group.

  • Have values and principles that they stay consistent with, which is very different than having something like a political ideology. (Those things can change, based on your value system.)