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My mother. Turns out she's a narcissistic, fascist Trump-loving Norwegian, who's only been to the USA twice. Last time we spoke, she defended the killing of Good and Pretti, stating that innocent lives can be taken in order to get the Somali fraud.
I don't talk to her anymore.
Why the fuck does a Norwegian care about fraud in the US?
The million dollar question I cannot answer...
That is not good. I am sad to hear MAGA is alive and well in Norway. :-(
I rarely spoke to her because of her views, but the statement that killing innocent people can be justified? Fuck that.
Oh, and she supports Putin to remove all the Nazis in Ukraine.
And by "Nazis" she probably means their Jewish president
Sorry to hear about yours (and the others in here), mine too, she used to be a clever, kind lady - or I thought she was - now I reflect and realize she fed me poison, abused me, and has no perspective outside of her own shallow little life. I couldn't get her into therapy, and when she started pushing fundraisers for the Good's murderer, I cut her out for good. In response she told me she "won't let" my adult brothers speak to me anymore - yeah that's what I'm talking about, mom. FFS
Honestly, same. She's not as radical as yours, but I had this idea that my mum was clever, sensible, and capable of critical thought. She used to read a lot, made better political arguments compared to my dad, and somehow managed to raise her children into smart individuals. The combination of me growing up, her getting addicted to Facebook, and the pandemic warped my perception of who my mum really was. She forms emotionally-driven opinions, she jumps to conclusions, she's gullible, and she's close-minded.
I don't think she would ever justify killing someone, but she's suddenly anti-vax, she's anti-choice and would vote for anyone who vows to maintain that culture, she's obsessed with drag queens and transgender people, and she gets her news from Facebook. All of her comments involve the phrase, "I've seen the comments on Facebook."
In 2024, I decided to cut contact with her because she kept spreading misinformation and sharing petition links to ban gender-affirming care. And in addition to that, she was preaching about the Olympic ceremony being blasphemous and "woke." My reason for going no-contact with her was that I couldn't bring myself to maintain a relationship with someone who made other people's lives dangerous. Everyone took her side and accused me of causing a drift and being immature because I couldn't handle other people's opinions, apparently.
I ended up talking to her again after a couple of months because I visited my family and I couldn't avoid her. She was going through a tough time and she was crying so I gave in. I still have a relationship with her but only because I actively choose to live as if I don't know those details about my mum. She's otherwise a good person; she donates to charity and she cares about democracy, the environment, and her children. But whenever I remember the kind opinions that she has, I get angry all over again. It sucks because she was indeed more sensible, but her brain got rotten by social media...