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Smaller communities, where you actually know the screen names of a lot of the active users, are much higher quality in terms of actual conversation.
On Reddit, for example, you're rarely talking to anybody in specific, just yelling into the void. This is painfully obvious if you ever try to engage someone who only exists on commercial social media. Their ability to have a conversation or entertain another point of view is almost non-existent. Their comments read more like they were written to chase upvotes than in an actual attempt to engage with the human on the other side of the conversation.
The influencer-driven obsession with views/likes/subscribers makes people think that small communities (like this one) are somehow worse. That's just not true, as long as your goal is more 'social' and less 'media'.