It distresses me to see this trend. It's like some parents have a reflex to stick a tablet in front of their kid, even if the kid doesn't need it or ask for it.

I work with a 4 year old kid who loves looking out windows. When he has free time, he often goes to look through them, even though there's nothing particular interesting going on out there. He's a chill little dude, completely mute, and I've never seen him angry. I've been told he likes to sit in a big chair on his front porch and watch everything and everyone go by, like a little old man on a summer day.

Yet every morning he comes in, he walks in holding a tablet. It doesn't make any sense to me. I'm fairly certain this kid would be happy staring out a window for the whole 15 or so minutes it takes to arrive.

I always loved staring out the window in the car - I loved long rides because of it, showing little to no interest in whatever our destination was. It gave my mind the space to wander, to ponder, to go on imaginative flights of fancy that helped me learn to organize my thoughts. It's upsetting that kids are being deprived of such moments nowadays.