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Mmmm, interesting, can you list off that data along with your mother's maiden name? It's uh for a friend...
Sure it's [data expunged] and [data expunged] and [Error: Security Clearence not found]
Lol, sorry, you seem to lack the credentials. It's "need-to-know basis" only. :P
Seriously tho, my family is so like... idk I guess "emmeshed"? Like everything is so entangled.
Like my mom literally use my brother's legal identity to take out loans... and also some assets are put under his name
Also like mom used to not even have a screen lock on the phone until someone robbed her so now there'a a screen lock.
And like I have access to their phones... and sometimes messed with settings and mom got mad at me.
I don't even have any legal papers in my physical posession except like my state ID, cuz my mom wanted to "keep it safe" for me...
To be fair: I held on to my first US passport as a teen, and I kinda damaged it lol (got it just to make sure my Citizenship status is properly documented in the legal system), never even had a chance to actually use it since parents were so busy all the time.
If there is ever a family issue... oh shit we all know each other's info, we could theoretically do so much damage to each other like a family "civil war".
Yikes, even with the best of intentions, having your mama take out loans and financial stuff in your brother’s name could doom his financial future if not paid off on time.
*Had a family member do this to me and it took a decade for me to pay it off.