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Well, without any context it is hard to say. In very general terms, I have a little advice.
Find a job you don't hate. You're going be spending a lot of your time there, if it sucks your soul out you will never be happy. I think this is a super important one.
Don't acquire needless debt. It's so easy to fall into the buy now, pay later mentality. Especially when Klarna and Afterpay are shoved down your throat with every online purchase. It's a slippery slope.
Quality is much more important than trendy. Sure, there is stuff that is quality and trendy. But you don't need to buy a Le Creuset when a Lodge will do just as good.
Get a cheap hobby. Maybe there is a little up front capital to get started, like for tools or something. But if the rest of it is cheap, you'll be able to do it more often. One of mine is restoring antique fountain pens. I needed a pen press, a buffing wheel, jewelry pliers, sac shellac, some 100% talc. But broken pens and sacs are cheap, so it is something I can do anytime for a few bucks. The detail work is soothing. And consumes hours.
It gets increasingly difficult to make friends after you're out of school. So, hang on to your closest ones. Make time to keep seeing them, even if you don't feel like going out.
I don't know how young "young" is, but I think it's pretty normal to feel that way in your early 20's. It's a time of big changes. And don't compare yourself to social media. It's not real life.