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Higher than that of any of my sexual partners. My libido wants me to have sex and orgasm more often than my body can really handle (lube is not the issue anymore, but it absolutely was when I first started having sex). I got a womanizer after a breakup about a decade ago and masturbated to the point that I got serious muscle cramps (it felt exactly like the cramps you get related to diarrhea/constipation, so I didn’t connect it at first and kept going to the toilet, but it’s just because it’s in the same general vicinity).
That said, it does depend on a lot of factors. When I’m in a relationship, it normalizes with my partner’s libido, and any kind of hormonal birth control drives it right off a cliff. If I’m under stress or in a messy house, I want to masturbate more and have sex less.