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My girlfriend before high school, had a friendship with 3 girls. Girl 1 claimed to be bi and later a lesbian but was straight and hung out with homophobic spoiled girls. Girl 2 claimed to be bi too and later an ally but then said she was actually homophobic and Christian. Girl 3 is extremely Christian, all 3 girls are Christian. She is anti-transition, defends Trump, and also wants to mass murder anti-Christians and abolish their religions or lack thereof.

None of these people seem like allies, they seem like virtue signalers.

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[โ€“] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

how does any of that arguement not apply to leftism or any political belief?

that's just how human beings work. we like people who are like us and validate our views. we hate people who aren't like us and challenge of views.

the point of any political belief system is to establish the boundaries of belief that mark the in group from the out group.

[โ€“] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

You only think that because conservatives believe everyone is like them, in order to make themselves feel better about being narcissistic. Because that isn't at all how it works for anyone who isn't conservative. Progressives and moderates have principles, things they believe even if it doesn't benefit them directly. There are fundamental values built on empathy, like liberty, equality, and justice. For the progressive position, these are not negotiable. Progressives will consider their values to determine where they stand on any particular issue. Conservatives will pick and choose which values to lean on as an argument in order to defend the position they have already chosen.

Conservativism is not a political belief system. There are no universal conservative values. You are deluded if you think that's how everyone else thinks.