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I'm kinda on risk for being put into one, so I kinda wanted to learn some stuff about how is it inside those. I think my biggest fear there is boredoom. Like, will I be able to videocall friends and/or listen to music there? Will my mp3 player/portable chinese retro emulator/phone/any eletronic be confiscated there?

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[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 13 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (2 children)

Assuming this is for commitment to a locked facility:

Bring some clothes without strings, shoes (again, no strings allowed so you might want to consider slides or slippers), no belts, no scarves. I recommend slides since they double as shower shoes. Valuables, electronics, anything considered a hazard to have on the unit will be confiscated. Includes dangly jewelry, large rings. And in general, consider that there are many patients up and about, some very sick and confused - don’t bring anything you’d be devastated if it got stolen or damaged. Don’t bring food/drinks, cigarettes, lighters, drugs -foodstuffs bc they can’t be verified or stored for hygienic reasons.

No smoking, but they’ll have nicorette gums or patches.

Small amounts of toiletries brought from home may be allowed at their discretion.

You might be allowed to use your smartphone for a short time under supervision (no smartphones for privacy reasons). There should be shared computer, phone, headphones use.

Since you won’t have your phone, DO have important phone numbers written on a piece of paper if you don’t have them memorized.

Expect a non-invasive skin check with a nurse during intake.

SIGN the information release form for family and friends you want involved in your care. Without your permission, they will be turned away.

Ask when the visiting hours are. You can have people bring you food and sometimes order food delivery (check with the staff).

If another patient is bothering you, maybe you’ve got a problematic roommate -let a staff know. They can maybe find a different arrangement.

Shower early or late. Higher chance of having the shared bathroom to yourself.

Stay on the normal sleep schedule and don’t stay up too late. First of all, they track how you’re sleeping. Second, it really sucks to sleep through your daily check-in with the psychiatrist (who basically controls how long you’re staying).

Staff are required to do frequent 24hr safety rounds on everyone, so this means at night too.

There should be recreational time outside to get some fresh air. Some group activities that are optional but encouraged to attend.

But yes, the days are boring! These places are geared for medications and getting you out of a crisis situation - not so much therapy. Recommend bringing reading/writing materials. Daily journaling is a nice idea. Remember no spiral bound because the spirals are sharp.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago

all of this, yes. yes and yes.

I haven't been to any location that ever allowed cell phone use at all. they did allow people to use the landline to call out but only certain times per day and to specific numbers they cleared.

otherwise everything you said was spot on.

and please take the clothes thing seriously, and put your full name on the tags. the clothes they give you will probably be two sizes too big or small and the staff will tell you it's all they have (which is a lie, they always "found" something better when someone from the outside brought it up with mgmt).

[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Welp, touching stuff. Not for me.

Got some problems with touching. Dunno if it's autism, bad experience, or a mix of both, but now I think it's better to lie to my psychiatrist.

I wouldn't recommend that. Is that the Psychiatrist who is currently treating you and is possibly discussing admitting you to a psych ward? If so, be honest with them and let them know what worries you about being admitted. Maybe they can help you find a new perspective.

And in case you mean the staff in the psych ward, let them know your boundaries early on. It will improve the quality of your stay. Usually the staff will ask you about your symptoms on the first day, get an overview over your needs and challenges. This would be a good opportunity to mention that.

[–] Rhoeri@piefed.world 0 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

There are three people you should NEVER lie to:

• A medical doctor
• Your therapist
• Your attorney

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Your therapist
Your attorney

Only applies in democratic countries with a good human rights track record and functional rule of law

[–] Rhoeri@piefed.world -1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Despite the amount of dopamine received from all the outrage manufactured over the implied collapse of democracy, whilst simultaneously receiving all those lovely endorphins as a result of just imagining the downfall of civilization….

For both, the law governing privately shared info is still very much intact for both.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

implied collapse of democracy

Some countries never had it to begin with

Should I really be telling a therapist about how the governemnt is making me depressed and how much I hate CCP if I were still in China? I'd get locked up lmao

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Political_abuse_of_psychiatry

My point is: Your advice to "never lie" to these supposed "trusted people" is not always a good advice.