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"Value" is always relative. And it has nothing to do with depression or other mental health issues. As long as someone still has potential to be productive, then there's no exuse to say they don't deserve to live. Actually, if you objectively don't have potential to be productive, then you're such an outlier that you deserve to be cared for by others anyway. Everyone deserves to live.
So how is value relative to time and circumstance?
I have depression and ADHD.
People who see my work-in-progress stuff usually say "wow, you've worked really hard on this stuff for such a long time, this is amazing, I hope you have good luck finishing this stuff and world will see how great it is."
People who look at what I've finished usually say "you're a lazy b and you've contributed basically nothing to the society. What have you done last few years, anyway? Unbelievable."
By the way? This isn't exclusive to people with mental health things. Same thing happens to perfectly nominal people too. It doesn't matter how close you're to finishing some great work, someone's out there about to pull the rug from under you because they think you've not done enough. People get routinely absolutely screwed over by middle managers with completely arbitrary productivity metrics.