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I’m currently a lump of chocolate and cheese, but once the new year hits, I’m determined to make 2026 the year I finally get back to a healthy weight (I’ve lost about 20 pounds, with about 80-100 to go). I’m pretty good about exercising regularly, but, as they say, abs are made in the kitchen. Those who have successfully lost weight, is there anything you particularly recommend for maintaining a calorie deficit to lose the weight, and then avoiding gaining it back later on?

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[–] Libb@piefed.social 74 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)
  • Daily long walks.
  • Eat less.
  • Eat better. I quit stuffing myself with industrially processed food, best decision ever. Even better than quitting smoking (which I did some 20 years ago). BTW, eating better helps a lot in eating less.

Edit: some improvements made to my (severely) lacking English.

[–] amelia@feddit.org 1 points 7 hours ago

I would like to stress the eating better part. In the past, I've made the mistake of looking only at calories. I never chose the whole grain option because it had more calories. Weight loss was hard and I was constantly hungry. Now I stopped eating at the canteen for lunch and started cooking my own stuff instead with lots of whole grain pasta, whole grain rice, potatoes, lots and lots of vegetables, legumes and plant based protein like tofu and tempeh. For a sweet snack I eat fruit. Lost 9kg in 5 months and it didn't even feel really hard, honestly. Cooking takes a lot of time though, but it's so much easier than being hungry all the time.

[–] crank0271@lemmy.world 47 points 1 day ago (3 children)

These are all great suggestions, and I would just like to add: drink more water. If water gets boring, add some lemon / lime / fruit, have some herbal teas, or even some coffee (black). When I'm in ravenous eating mode and about to go for seconds, it's helpful if I can catch myself and have a glass of water first. Then wait 5 - 10 minutes and see if I actually want more food.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago

+1 to all you just said :)

We quit drinking soda (and I quit alcohol, too). Now it's, water, pressed fresh fruits (but not too much), tea and infusions. Maybe once a year I will have a drink of wine (I'm French, I have an excuse ;)

As for teas, my advice there would be to not cheap out on tea. quality teas, aka full leaves, are a thing of their own. Also I would encourage to get at least two tea posts (one for stronger teas and the other one for the lighter ones)

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Drinking calories is so bad.

I only drink Coconut Unsweetened Silk and tap water outside of a zero cal soda now and then.

[–] Luxyr@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 hours ago

Be weary of artificial sugar that can still trigger hunger by impacting your blood sugar levels due to insulin release. Your body can respond to the sudden influx of artificial sugar the same way it does to real sugar.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 4 points 1 day ago

I still lightly sweeten my coffee most mornings, but that's about it.

[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

What do you like to eat that’s less processed? I’d like to do that, processed food unfortunately requires just so much less prep.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Fresh veggies & fruits, a little quality meat (but not too much and not every day), no industrial bread (I live in Paris, we still have access to a few real artisanal bakeries where they make their own bread, but here too they're getting replaced by industrial ones, so we've planned on learning to make our own bread soon), no industrial sweets/treats and no soda.

My spouse and I also learned to cook, instead of going out to a restaurant multiple times a week like we used. Saves us money and it's a fine moment we spend together too ;)

As for the time it takes to cook fresh food: either we will make very simple meal, which takes minutes (plus we often have fun while cooking) or we will cook a meal that we will last us 2 or 3 days. So it's really not that much of an issue. And since eating better helps us feeling a lot less tired too, well... we think it's really worth it. The real effort is to be willing to change one's own habits, at least if I can relate to my own experience.

Edit: maybe I should make it clear that the key change, and the very first step anyone should do is to stop eating those ready-made, over-processed and over-packaged shit food that we've learned to consider normal food. Sorry I this sound rude, even more so in the USA I would imagine, but this what I think they're worth (with all their sugar and salt, and conservatives and colorants) and how good I think they're for our health: barely a few weeks after I quite eating that I started getting better. To me, it's the same shit as the cigarettes and if we don't self-destroy in a nuclear holocaust (or ins ome ecological major crisis) before that I have little doubt this industrial food will end being an even worse scandal than tobacco ever was.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 4 points 1 day ago

It is garbage food-like industrial waste, mostly. Read the nutrition information and it's mostly empty calories! And with a work schedule all over the map, it is challenging. But an air fryer and sweet/regular potatoes pack a lot of nutrients in with the denser calorie count and fiber!

[–] CoffeeTails@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Hi! Not the same person but I'm in the same process!

Firstly, take it in steps, don't quit all processed food at once. I actually started with eating more veggies, both in the food and as a side salad.

Then read on the products, not all processed foods are equal, and it depends on what more you have in the meal. On meat products I often look at the meat percentages, it can vary A LOT. A sausage with + 80% meat is a lot better than 30%...

You can also look for E-numbers, concentrates, and other additives. How good or bad these are are still being discussed but I'm leaning towards bad, especially if it's a lot.

For example a highly processed sausage with basmati rice and a decent amount of salad isn't the same as said sausage with just mac and cheese.

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Some meals are easier to prep than others but more often than not I've found meals, especially the meat, to need time. Time to cook properly!

  • Fry meat in a pan, let it simmer in water for half an hour or so ( I rarely keep time ), make a sauce in the pan.

  • Or put a chunk of meat on a oven safe plate and trow it into the oven on 150-175°C for 1.5-3h or more depending on size and tenderness.

  • Or make a soup, just make sure it boils long enough for the meat! :)