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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 169 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I’m friends with sex workers who give comfort just like this. Some of them don’t even have sex on their menus, just physical touch, companionship, and listening. They say it’s exhausting, perhaps even moreso than sex, but the pay is good. There’s boundary issues to watch out for.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

I used to know a gal who did SW at night, though at the time I wasn't aware of her occupation. She'd regularly hang out with my buddy and I. One day he was complaining about his back and she offered him a massage, then offered me one as well as I'd been known to have a bad shoulder While it wasn't the absolute best massage I'd had, it was up there above most places covered by my medical.

I could 100% see people paying for company and a non-sexual contact from somebody like that. She was good with people and had a sense for now to relax people physically and emotionally.

[–] 14th_cylon@lemmy.zip 90 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

sex workers

don’t even have sex on their menus

🤔

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 58 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Just sashaying up to the counter, “a number nine combo and a medium sex.”

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 42 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

"Sorry, we're all out of sex. How about a hotly contested disagreement followed by rapprochement and eventually a blossoming mutual respect and admiration over the course of several months?"

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Does it come with a side of friendship?

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Wait there are 12 days of Christmas, you switched back way too soon you heathen!

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That’s literally why I asked though.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'm afraid that information isn't publicly available.

[–] prettybunnys@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's what she said

[–] gamis44@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 2 days ago

oh look, i found it, the information.

Doesn't sound too bad

[–] WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@piefed.world 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'll have two number 9s, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, two number 45s, one with cheese, and a large soda.

[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Wanna round up for the tatas for tots foundation?

[–] EchoCranium@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

"Did you want fries with that?"

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 5 points 2 days ago

How much for a "hug n tug"?

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Unironical, it kind of works like that. There are usual combos, and straying off from them costs extra.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Wait till you find out about Cam girls

[–] 14th_cylon@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

really? what do you think i will discover when i find out?

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sex workers that dont have sex on the menu

[–] 14th_cylon@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

if you don't have sex on a menu, you are not a sex worker, that is literally definition of the word.

similar to when you don't do politics, you are not a politician and when you don't work in a field of medicine with a medical degree, you are not a medical doctor.

also sex does not necessarily mean "sex with you" or "vaginal penetration".

with that being said, here is handful guide to "cam people" for you:

  • that guy doing videos about physics: not a sexworker
  • that girl doing videos about chess: not a sexworker
  • that girl masturbating on a camera: sexworker

hope that helps.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

What about a girl who says "lol gimme money cause im soooo hawwwwt" but doesnt get naked

[–] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 8 points 1 day ago

It's really not that surprising and I'd wager that non-intercourse sex work is vastly more common than the other

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 33 points 2 days ago (2 children)

That sounds like therapy with touching and without the responsibility. Probably not a bad job.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 66 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yeah but without the years of training on how to manage and help people's emotional problems.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

and the years of training on compartmentalizing work and personal life.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

True. Not a job for me anyway, people are just... ugh.

*to work with

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

With therapy you are a professional who is understood and respected as a professional. With sex work you are understood as a societal problem and being outed as having done sex work can harm other future career prospects.

Yes, everyone here understood that already

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Yea this is known thing. Sex can be part of it but it’s not really all that important for this kind of thing. Those men (and sometimes women) are so desperate for intimacy they will literally pay for it.

It’s the macho way of going to therapy.