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I'll go first. My ex cheated on me with a dude, (I'm les, she's bi,) brought home chlamydia and bed bugs, then after 13 years of no contact, texts me randomly to try and pull me into an MLM pyramid scheme.

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[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (2 children)

My wife’s ex… She wanted a dog, he didn’t. They compromised and got a dog. She broke it off shortly afterwards, because she realized he was a full blown mask-off white supremacist. She got the dog in the split, because she was the one who wanted him in the first place.

We got married like a decade later, and the dog died shortly afterwards. She had him blocked on everything, but sent a “hey just wanted to let you know the dog died” message through a mutual friend who still talked to him. He tried to use “grief processing” as an excuse to meet up for lunch. He was still a blatant white supremacist, but hadn’t seen any of our wedding photos because she had him blocked on everything. I’m not white. I offered to tag along to their meeting, just to see his the look on his face when I walked through the door and introduced myself as her husband.

[–] Rooster326@programming.dev 13 points 1 hour ago

Why even send the text at that point though?

Yeah that dog you didn't want, and hadn't seen in 10 years. It's dead. Want to get coffee?

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 5 points 1 hour ago

I offered to tag along to their meeting, just to see his the look on his face when I walked through the door and introduced myself as her husband.

Oh man, that would have been priceless. The one-liners you could have used are endless:

  • "Wait, this is the guy who thinks he's the 'master race'? Seriously?!"
  • "Did you find out if he has to shop for his white robes in the children's section?"