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Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schools
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Is porn really behind the misogyny? What about the tards in the so-called "manosphere" saying all sorts of crazy and immoral shit? Those have more reach than whatever extremely weird pornography is supposed to be at fault. Is this what not being able to say "this is objectively wrong/right" because of Western moral relativism leads to?
this is called post-structuralism btw, just so you can give a name to it
the idea that there is no (absolute) right or wrong, only subjective interpretations of the world
Lots of things feed into it. The porn is just one of them.
This is part of a big effort to combat misogyny right now, which will be for naught when Reform rolls into power, declares it all "woke" and makes the problem 10 times worse.
It's in the article and it's very good. You should read it.
Thing is the specific guy we're all thinking of ran a porn company. One with little consent.
I do think porn is a symptom not a cause and targetting it wont actually help. Mistreatment of women wasnt exactly rare in say the 50s, even if it wasnt filmed for money.
Well, you know all the humiliation porn, hardcore porn, rape porn and such?
That's not a very nice representation of sex that can be considered safe for anyone, especially young humans with a developing brain.
Can we say that is objectively wrong? Or are we all so addicted to porn that we get angry as soon as it comes up in such discussions?
"Young humans" sure. Not young humans, you absolutely do you.
There's a bit of an emerging trend in leftist European circles in particular that sees porn as inherently patriarchal and wrong and we're not ready for how much anti-porn is going to be the new terfism yet. This is going to suck a lot, and not in a good way.
i would just like to point out that not everybody sees it like that. i identify as leftist and don't see things that way, even though porn often is exploitative. but that has nothing to do with the porn itself, but with the economic coercion that is at play when the thing is created: for money. that's the problem, that it happens for money, and not voluntarily. and that's an economic problem, not one of porn itself.
So long as women choose to do it to fulfill capitalist needs (which is to say, to avoid the implicit violence of homelessness and/or incarceration), rather than simply because they enjoy it, then it kind of is.
If not specifically patriarchal, then at least evil and exploitative in some capacity.
I don't disagree with you, but if you're going to take that position you have to include work as a whole, not just sex work. There are differences, sure, but we're all selling our minds, bodies, and time just to stay alive.
Oh I absolutely do apply that position to all work. But I would do so with the caveat that if you have a career which helps people even despite the reality that you're being exploited while doing so - like taking care of kids or special needs people or the environment or something - then that might provide you with more happiness than purely selling access to your body.
That's not at all intended as a judgement of the mere fact, though. If you genuinely prefer sex work to the available alternatives to you, get that bag. Or maybe you even help people in your capacity as a sex worker, I don't know.
that’s porn
it’s not real life
A simple web search will prove you wrong.
the porn is porn
the real life incidents are real life
And teaching young kids about the difference is important, because you are 100% right but kids don't realize unless taught.
I'm not talking about the tragic endings of the process, but about the process itself.
More violent porn being consumed leads to more demand of the same. It basically rewires your brain, like drugs. Look it up if you have any doubt.
Educating about porn should be mandatory like educating about drugs and all similarly harmful stuff.