Chronic Illness
A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.
This is a support group, not a place for healthy people to share their opinions on disability.
Rules
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Be excellent to each other
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Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc
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No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.
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No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.
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No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.
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Respect the Group’s Purpose. It’s a support forum for people with chronic illness to vent and share and talk together. It’s not a place for healthy people to come and give their opinions.
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Yeah ... I know now ... I used to complain about my arthritis and told people it wasn't that bad and it didn't stop me. I'd put up with the pain and keep working and doing stuff.
Then about two years ago, I woke up one morning and I couldn't freakin raise my arms above my head ... I thought it was the end and that this stupid disease was expediting my trip to the grave. It was absolutely miserable demoralizing and depressing.
It took about a month of gentle exercising and I finally got motion back. Ever since then, any time anyone mentions pain to me again - I'll always sympathize with them .