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[–] meco03211@lemmy.world 40 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I forget the name of the phenomenon but essentially when you do a questionable act, you had a perfectly valid reason. If someone else does the exact same act, they're a selfish asshole with no respect for other people.

This leads to people doing things that upset others because those other people then think, "well that's a selfish asshole..."

Also zipper merging brings out the worst fucking line monitors that don't understand the world they live in.

[–] DABDA@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Probably Fundamental attribution error. Basically, that we judge others by their actions but ourselves by our intentions.

[–] meco03211@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago
[–] MightyLordJason@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

“We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behaviour.” ― Stephen M.R. Covey, The Speed of Trust: The One Thing that Changes Everything

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

Humans are incredibly good at justifying behavior they did on impulse