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Hello, Im kind of new here and trying to get used to Lemmy and I was wondering about if this is true since I am considering donating on this site to support alternative projects but wanted to hear other users before doing so. That being said, what have been your experiences?

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[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

corn, seggs, etc too. so absurd that stuff. esp because so much tiktok content is just lead-ins to porn/onlyfan accounts.

[–] crapwittyname@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's a good point actually. An extra level of ridiculousness and hypocrisy to this trend of self censorship.
You know what worries me though? It was about 2008ish when I first heard someone say "lol" verbally as a response to a witty comment, and it was a really weird moment for me. She didn't laugh, she smiled and said "lol", because she was so used to speaking online. Now it's pretty normal to hear that. I even do it without realising it.
What worries me is that these awful censorship words will creep into spoken English and people will start saying then out loud. I think I will unalive a little inside when that happens.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have already heard things like "unalive" defended as youth slang rather than Orwellian doublespeak.

[–] crapwittyname@feddit.uk 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

I mean, on the one hand, no. It's not even slang, it's just a pathetic phenomenon where the users feel forced into using words they don't want to, even though they aren't being forced but they cowardishly still do it for fear of actual censorship. But then, on the other hand, my generation's youth slang includes things like douchecanoe and heckin and live, laugh, love, so I don't feel in a superior enough position to judge gen z on theirs.

[–] SirEDCaLot@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago

Yup all those too.

I wish Reddit would put up a banner like 'you are on the grown up internet now, please act like it'.