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Well, I’m of three minds on that topic.
One is that I’m a piece of shit fuck-up addict that doesn’t deserve anyone.
The other is that since I got clean I’m too scared to pursue anyone because the last relationship ended so poorly it pushed me to get clean and I feel like I’d fuck it up again.
The other other is that I’m doing much better since getting clean and feel like a relationship would distract me from my current goals.
Which is the truth? 🤷♂️
they all are. you are doing good! keep ok going and don't be too hard on yourself