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[–] vacuumflower@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The experience of much of my life, until I learned that you can forget shame and look at their shoulders and hands and neck and hair, and that'd be both socially acceptable and pleasant. I thought non-autistic people learn this before puberty.

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't necessarily plan to look at their bits, it's just the result of a glance in a random direction.

[–] vacuumflower@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 weeks ago

Exactly. While you should plan to look at bits no less aesthetically pleasing, but with no danger involved whatsoever.