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Sorry, I just saw your reply. I was addressing the thing you said about forums, where people identify frequent posters; their profile picture is big, there is often a signature, a big nickname, etc. I like that we (here on Lemmy and similar sites) do not often read the little nickname above. I'm sure no one or almost no one can say which other comments I have made without going to my profile. There's nothing behind my words but my words: no reputation, no prejudice from an accounts' aesthetic, etc. I mean, my grammar betrays me, and someone might remember me from a previous encounter. But yeah, like I said, I'm like a blob for most people, and that's comfortable.
I was going to end the comment there, but there are so many reasons why I prefer to be a blob, a little text box. First, traumatic experience. Second, when there's a reputation, it starts to weight on how people receive your messages and I hate that people misconstrue me (and I guess I'm easy to caricaturize). Third, no social drama, no social nothing. Peace... ᵃⁿᵈ ᵗʰᵒˢᵉ ᵃʳᵉ ᵗʰᵉ ᵐᵃⁱⁿ ʳᵉᵃˢᵒⁿˢ.