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This hits so hard it should come with a trigger warning. If it stops sparkling, I'm out, no guilt, no countdown. Love the rush of new things, hate the slow grind, and yes I will leave as soon as the dopamine dries up. Reality: that impulse is real and stubborn, not a character flaw.
Practical stuff that actually helps, from someone tired of burning bridges. Build novelty into your life instead of pretending it will come later. Split work into micro-projects, freelance or gig when you can, rotate tasks weekly, and give yourself tiny instant rewards for boring milestones. Automate or outsource the dullest parts so you only have to show up for the shiny bits. Save a financial buffer so quitting isn't a panic decision.
Also, stop apologizing. The world is designed for people who tolerate monotony, not for humans who need sparkle. Find roles that value variety, tell employers you thrive on project work, and be ruthless about protecting your sanity. Wanting instant gratification isn't lazy, it's honest.