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lol, that would be pretty good!
Yeah, but they do seem pretty inappropriate for most work places. I get not wanting them all over every office.
Like, imagine your boss is trying to explain something to you while she uses one, or the new co-worker you kinda think is cute is using one while they ask you for help with a 'how is this done here' type thing.
I learned a technique as a teen that involves crossing my legs in a particular angle and flexing/relaxing my thigh muscles.
Very good way to get through the day relaxed and mild.
But crucially jot noisy or distracting to others. Like music in headphones?
It's very subtle, yes. My breathing might get a little irregular or I might get slightly flushed.
As opposed to vibrator noise!
Exactly! Far more subtle than a butterfly! (Those can get very noisy if you're seated on a plastic chair.)
Exactly.
Well fair, I suppose. No vices in the office then.
I guess even the nyt can occasionally be reasonable on accident.
Sadly looking upon for on the content of the… podcast apparently? It’s more like expecting equal pay and thinking sexual harassment should be prosecuted, not a novel new toy that women are using to pleasure themselves. :(
Yeah i guess not wanting to be raped at the place I go to not die of exposure is one of my more prominent vices.
Didn't know that was specifically a femme thing. I know most guys I've met also dont like to be raped, like, generally?