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All aboard the Dysphoria train (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 day ago by Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world to c/translater@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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My partner offered to do my makeup today. I was excited both because she's been iffy on the whole transition thing and because she's very good at doing her own makeup and I was excited to get some instruction.

I've always thought I look young for my age and fairly attractive (if you're into mountain men) so I was cautiously optimistic about the results. But when she was done I looked in the mirror and my first thought was: shit, I hope Napoleon comes through that door and puts me out of my misery. I looked like an old french duke or a sad theatre queen in a Christmas pantomime.

Without the makeup I looked around 5 years younger than my age, but with it I looked easily 25 years older. My eyelids especially looked like poorly tanned leather. I know estrogen is amazing for your skin, but Jesus Christ does it have some heavy fucking lifting to do.

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

That's really helpful, thanks. Weirdly I am not worried about voice training. I have remarkably malleable vocal folds.

Edit: don't get me wrong. My voice is a huge source of dysphoria, I just think I won't have much difficulty(after this damn throat infection subsides). If you're having difficulty, you could just try impersonating someone who's voice you like. It's a lot easier to mimic someone else than make deliberate and distinct changes to your own voice.