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This is a brilliant comment! You make a great point about how it's unsolicited comments from assholes. I've heard that loads, but i don't think I've ever heard a woman comment on a random man's appearance and say "i hate it when men wear/style XXX way". Men that say it are often objectifying the women round them and expecting her to meet THEIR needs not her own!