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Your parents are bad people
I feel ya with this, but to paint this as black and white is to miss important nuance.
They're deluded. As such, it's an error to see them as evil in the same way that it is to see a person that's high on meth and dangerous or schizophrenic and hostile as being evil.
They're no less dangerous, don't get me wrong, but to see them as bad is, I think, a critical misunderstanding of what's going on here that leads people to think like this.
I didn't say evil, I said bad people.
If propaganda can convince you to hate people just because of where they're from, you're not a good person.
Now, if you realize you were a bad person and work on being a good person, you can become one. If you know what you're doing is bad and have no desire to change, then you're evil.
And none of those are immutable qualities.
Yeah you're right. I shouldn't have used the word evil.
I would urge you to examine how propaganda has affected everyone.
Like other posters have said, probably the best choice OP can make is to actually talk to them and maybe not use lemmy for answers.