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[–] 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

one time i went to a strip club in my 20s, and i always thought it was a "no touching" thing. this girl put a rag on my lap and said i could touch her where ever and it was one of the most awkward experiences in my life.

it's safe to say i never went back to a strip club after that.

[–] BanMe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My friends bought me a dance from a male dancer, in a private booth... once in there, the guy told me they'd paid for a blowjob as well. I kept my dick in my drawers and we chatted for a few minutes instead. Who the fuck wants paid sex, ick

[–] 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago

I mean, the thing is, is that if your ok with that, you do you, but for me, sex isn't like somthing i do so casually with anyone like that. There's of course that thing where "men" are supposed to enjoy it, but for me, i had a feeling inside that this was wrong and not the way i enjoy doing things. I mean there was nothing wrong with the stripper she was a nice and i went for a smoke we chatted, but im kinda more like "can i buy you a drink and lets talk" kinda person not "netflix and chill" type of person.

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

... A rag?

I've never been to a strip club, and now have no desire.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Been to plenty and can't see that flying for 2 seconds.

It's a neat experience if you're a man with a female date. The dancer's treat you very differently and bend over backwards to make your woman feel comfortable and wanted there. Great fun!

[–] 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

yeah that's what went though my head

[–] setsubyou@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Just ask if you can shake her hand or something