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[โ€“] theneverfox@pawb.social 20 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's very hit or miss. Couples are like a ying yang - they have to fit together

There's no one size fits all solution. You have to work out who is the pursuer and who is the pursued, and you have to keep it all in bounds where everyone is content with the process

[โ€“] Donkter@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

This is so true. I always point out to people: think of all the couples you know. How did they meet? Personally I don't know any two couples that met the same way. It ranges from being housemates in college to finding out they lived in the same city from some internet forum.