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[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 23 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Why is it always maid outfits? I don't mean to be clueless, I just know women's fashion rather vast and this seems oddly narrow.

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 35 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Most trans girls are massive weebs, there really isn't much more to it. And if you don't agree, feel free to try and fight me.

i accept your challenge. cup and ball competition at high noon

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Why would I fight you? I don't really have an opinion here; it was a genuine question about something I found odd and I appreciate the answer.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I think that was in jest, but don't trust me, I can't read subtext. I only trust regular text

It was half in jest. I have no intention of fighting anyone.

[–] MummysLittleBloodSlut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Depressed Japanese men like the idea of a woman who has to do everything they say. They shared it with depressed white men, who shared it with depressed closeted trans girls

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Are they still closeted if they're dressing up for regular meetups like this? 🤔

Then the trans girls come out of the closet, but their tastes are still informed by their closeted time

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 21 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Tbh I really don't get it. I prefer the Greek goddess aesthetic

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Yeah at some point I may even get one of those bicep bracelets

[–] bestboyfriendintheworld@sh.itjust.works 17 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Trans women have their own subculture regarding clothing. Teenage male fantasies have a bigger influence than main stream women’s fashion.

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Unix Socks make intuitive sense to me for some reason, but maid outfits not so much. Different fantasies then I guess?

Edit: fixed link

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 8 points 5 days ago

Both were popularized by anime.

Clocking trans folk by poor fashion choices is easier than by their face.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It's slutty but standardized. You don't gotta make style choices

[–] Deconceptualist@leminal.space 5 points 5 days ago

Huh, never struck me as particularly slutty but ok.

The standardized/low(ish) effort part does kinda track with the other half of the meme though. I hadn't thought of it that way.